Comedian David Oyando, better known as Mulamwah, has made headlines as much for his relationship woes as for his humor. His highly publicized breakups with ex-partners Carol Sonnie (2021) and Ruth K (2025) reveal recurring themes that have captivated his fans and critics alike.
Below, we delve into five similarities between these dramatic splits, shedding light on the patterns that have left social media buzzing.
1. PRIVATE RELATIONSHIP ISSUES MADE PUBLIC
Both breakups quickly escalated from private disagreements to public drama.
In 2021, Mulamwah and Carol Sonnie’s split unfolded through cryptic social media posts, emotional statements, and revealing interviews. Four years later, Ruth K took a similar route, addressing the end of her relationship with the comedian in heartfelt posts.
“It’s been barely three months since the breakup, and I’ve faced disrespect in ways you wouldn’t imagine publicly and even worse in private,” Ruth K revealed.
Mulamwah didn’t hold back either, writing on Instagram:
“You broke your own home with your two hands… Siku ikafika ukanitafutia makosa ukatoka na kuhama.”
2. ACCUSATIONS OF DISRESPECT AND EMOTIONAL PAIN
In both relationships, allegations of emotional hurt and disrespect were front and center.
Carol Sonnie hinted at heartbreak caused by Mulamwah’s quick rebound after their split, while Ruth K openly accused him of emotional neglect and disrespect.
“I’m trying to heal, to gather myself emotionally, but it’s draining,” Ruth K admitted.
Mulamwah countered with claims that Ruth disrespected him and his family, saying, “She even disrespected my parents and was moved to Ruaka by friends.”
3. QUICK REBOUNDS AND NEW RELATIONSHIPS
Mulamwah’s swift transitions to new relationships became a defining feature of his breakups.
After parting ways with Sonnie, Mulamwah introduced Ruth K as his new partner within months. Following his split from Ruth, he confirmed a relationship with Ugandan influencer Debby in June 2025, sparking widespread chatter and memes from fans.
4. ONLINE TROLLING OF EX-PARTNERS
Both Sonnie and Ruth faced relentless trolling after their respective breakups with Mulamwah.
Fans rallied behind Sonnie, blaming Mulamwah and targeting his new partner with criticism. Ruth K, now in the spotlight, expressed frustration over the online hostility, while Mulamwah dismissed the negativity with his signature defiance:
“Comments sidhani kuna ile sijawai pata… It’s gloves OFF. I fear no one.”
5. HINTS OF SECRETS AND PROMISES TO EXPOSE THEM
Both breakups carried an undercurrent of hidden truths, with veiled threats to reveal all.
Sonnie once hinted at unresolved issues in her relationship with Mulamwah but stopped short of full disclosure. Ruth K has followed suit, stating:
“One day, I will tell my story…”
Mulamwah, ever ready to retaliate, responded:
“We own some of these blogs. Pia mimi nina zako. These platforms mnapewa mnatumia vibaya.”
WHERE DO THEY STAND NOW?
Carol Sonnie has pivoted to building her brand as a content creator, while Ruth K is navigating the emotional aftermath of her breakup, focusing on reclaiming her peace and dignity. Mulamwah, undeterred by the public scrutiny, continues his comedic journey, all while courting the spotlight with his new partner, Debby.
These recurring patterns in Mulamwah’s relationship dramas continue to keep fans entertained and critics engaged, adding yet another layer to his multifaceted public persona.
